I wish people on tumblr would STOP asking unqualified people for advice. About anything.
Because if it’s about something important, like your relationship, sexuality, or GOD FORBID something serious like abortion and you ask someone who gives you their opinion as a factual statement while turning you in the direction of their personal bias, and you listen to them, you could have just:
Ruined a relationship.
Made someone insecure about their sexuality.
Or directed them towards something they should never feel guilted into doing. Like raising a child as a teenager.
I have seen this happen multiple times. I was a member of an advice blog a while back and I quit because the other members were immature, rash children trying to guide other immature, rash children.
Seriously. Please.
If you don’t have the qualifications to be helping people (I’ve had counselor training, psychology classes and a minor in human sexuality) DO NOT FUCKING ANSWER THEM. DON’T DO IT.
SEND THEM TO SOMEONE WHO CAN. NOT ON TUMBLR. TELL THEM TO SEEK REAL, PROFESSIONAL HELP.